Helping Children with Behaviour &
Emotional Self-Regulation

behaviour & emotional self-regulation

ABA is not only for children with autism. Many neurotypical children also benefit from ABA strategies, especially when they face challenges in areas such as:

  • Screen time dependencies
  • Emotional or behavioural outbursts
  • Toilet / sleep training
  • Feeding and mealtime behaviors
  • Behavioural changes during puberty
 

Our approach focuses on understanding the “why” behind behaviours and teaching healthier, more functional alternatives that fit naturally into family life.

We work closely with families to address these specific behavioural needs in ways that are practical and sustainable, ensuring both the individual and their family are supported through this important developmental period.

What are signs that my child may have difficulties with emotional regulation?

Some key factors include:

How do I distinguish between my child being “naughty” versus having an underlying regulation challenge?

What adults sometimes describe as “naughty” is often a child experimenting with boundaries or responding to the immediate social rules they have learned at home or in their environment. With consistent expectations, many children can adjust their behavior.

In contrast, children with underlying regulation difficulties often struggle to control their responses even when they understand the expectations. Their reactions may be more intense, longer-lasting, or harder to redirect. These children benefit from explicit teaching, structured strategies, and consistent support to manage emotions, transitions, and social demands effectively.

When does tantrum-like behaviour become something I should seek professional help for?

If tantrums happen daily, last longer than 15–20 minutes, involve aggression, or make it difficult for your child to function at home or in school, it may be time to seek structured support.

ABA can help children learn coping strategies and replacement behaviours that are safer and more effective.

How does ABA therapy work for children with emotional regulation or behavioural challenges?

ABA uses a systematic approach:

1. Identify triggers that lead to outbursts or meltdowns.
2. Teach functional replacement skills such as asking for help, requesting breaks, or using calming strategies.
3. Reinforce positive behaviours consistently so they understand the power of language and that when they communicate appropriately, things may go their way.
4. Collaborate with parents and teachers to ensure skills transfer to daily life.

The goal is not just to reduce challenging behaviour but to increase independence, flexibility, and confidence.

How quickly can I expect to see changes in my child’s behaviour once they start ABA?

Every child is different. Some families notice small improvements within a few weeks, such as smoother transitions or fewer meltdowns. More significant changes usually develop over a few months with consistent practice at home and school.

The key is consistency across environments. When therapists, parents, and teachers use the same strategies, progress happens faster.

What's unique about our approach?

Evidence-Based & Compassionate

Led by experienced clinicians using positive ABA and other proven approaches, always grounded in respect and care.

Skills for Independence

Aim-to-fade design equips families with strategies they can use confidently without long-term reliance on therapy.

Real-World Impact

Strategies are introduced with real-life contexts in mind, ensuring skills transfer seamlessly to home, school, and social environments.

Holistic & Collaborative

Integrated with areas such as social skills, executive functioning, and daily routines, while partnering with schools and families to create consistent supports.

Want to find out more about how we help with behavioural and emotional regulation?

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. If you have concerns about your child’s development, please consult with a qualified healthcare professional for proper assessment and guidance.